tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post5789706357641324410..comments2010-04-14T03:53:06.873-07:00MaybeFriends.comhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11608231491340787108noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post-8082596629632437712009-07-12T18:09:27.916-07:002009-07-12T18:09:27.916-07:00exactly, in deciding you have to take the other person into consideration and if your not sure then aren&#39;t you just messing, i know i wouldn&#39;t want to spend time with someone who might prefer to be somewhere elseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post-70487986952638228522008-10-26T10:50:00.000-07:002008-10-26T10:50:00.000-07:00How can you really judge. My gut reaction is usually after one date I know. Sometimes I go on two, but if the person isn't grabbing my attention, I am afraid to meet for a third time in case I am wasting their time and giving the wrong impressionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post-18906836016361807162008-09-27T12:40:00.000-07:002008-09-27T12:40:00.000-07:00Have to agree totally.<BR/>I meet this girl off the site and I was txting and chatting on the phone and we seemed to click. <BR/>We meet up last week and she said that she was interested as I was too quiet and shy ! <BR/>She was not prepared to give me a second chance !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post-66146823645535315072008-07-08T15:32:00.000-07:002008-07-08T15:32:00.000-07:00Sisterofzorro. did you ever think that the guys who drop their trousers on the first date or different guys to the ones that it takes 3 dates to drop their guard.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post-21209735629023814002008-07-02T14:30:00.000-07:002008-07-02T14:30:00.000-07:00I don't think you can always decide straight off, been on a few dates in the last few weeks and half of them I knew it wouldn't work out after 1st date, whereas the others I'm planning on 2nd or 3rd to get a better ideaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post-21039137778520675732008-07-02T03:36:00.000-07:002008-07-02T03:36:00.000-07:00I dunno...sometimes a guy has potential and you give him a 2nd date chance...but gut instinct is usually right...you know in the first few seconds whether its a yay or a nay....they say that about interviews too! JPDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post-20106175701732480592008-07-02T03:06:00.000-07:002008-07-02T03:06:00.000-07:00Another take on the whole good guy versus bad boy quandary....http://www.independent.ie/lifestyle/why-women-love-bad-boys-1421183.html<BR/>....there are whole websites devoted apparently! www.liarscheatsandbastards.com <BR/>www.whywomenlovebastards.com <BR/>but ultimately the nice guys win out in the end...so they say!!!! any thoughts? JPDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158420599715916263.post-13172671038932154602008-07-01T15:00:00.000-07:002008-07-01T15:00:00.000-07:00Thanks for the prize, a lovely surprise! This topic is interesting because partly from hearsay and partly from anecdotal evidence it's usually the guys who decide not to take things further after one date. Maybe I've been unlucky and have only met guys from the 13% (the results of that poll shock me, by the way) who want to go to the max after a date. If it takes men at least three dates to drop their guard why does it take fewer than three dates for them to try and drop their trousers? It seems like a sad state of affairs to me. Or is it just the people on this site?SisterofZorronoreply@blogger.com